Did you know that “what to wear to a wedding” is the most commonly searched wedding-related topic on google?
If you’re anything like me, you’ll stand in front of your closet for ever, staring at your clothes and saying, “I have nothing to wear”. Then you’ll search multiple boutiques and online stores trying to find the perfect outfit.
You’ll order 5 dresses, return 4, and still not be certain about the 1 dress that you kept… But it really doesn’t have to be that stressful!
Check out LYIMI’s Pinterest for inspiration on adorable wedding guest attire and where to find them.
Ask about the dress code
Weddings are all so different. Some might have strict dress codes and others might not have even put a minute into considering asking guests to abide by a dress code.
It’s necessary to check in with the bride-to-be on what the dress code for the wedding will be.
Many brides will list the dress code right on the save the date or the invitation; but still, understanding the dress code language can be tricky to decipher.
Black-Tie
This is the most formal wedding dress code that you will see.
Men: Tuxedo (black tie, black vest, and black leather shoes are also recommended.
Women: Formal floor-length dress or gown. Another option is a formal jumpsuit that covers your ankles.
Cocktail
Cocktail attire is usually the most popular dress code at a wedding.
Men: A Tuxedo is not required, but men must still wear a suit and tie.
Women: Rather than a floor-length gown, women should wear a midi dress or a knee-length dress. Think classy but still comfortable.
Semi-Formal / Dress Casual
In this dress code, take the venue, the time of day, and the season into account to help you decide on what to wear. Light colors and fabrics for a daytime wedding; more formal, darker colors for an evening event.
Men: Slacks and a dress shirt (wearing a tie is optional).
Women: A dressy skirt and top, a pretty dress, or a classy pantsuit. Floor-length gowns are inappropriate when it comes to this dress code.
Casual
Casual attire weddings are usually much more laid back. That being said, jeans, baseball caps, shorts, and tank tops are still inappropriate unless otherwise announced.
Men: Khakis or dress pants and a collared shirt. Absolutely no tennis shoes or t-shirts.
Women: Sundresses! This is your opportunity to wear an adorable sundress – whether the wedding is outdoors or indoors. Or you could opt for nice pants and a cute top! Dressy sandals or wedges are perfect.
What should I NOT wear…?
The first and most obvious: Absolutely do NOT wear a white dress. It’s a common rule of thumb that you should just never wear white to a wedding unless the couple requests all-white attire.
No matter the dress code, you should also never wear jeans or sneakers to a wedding as a guest.
Lastly, try not to match the bridal party! You don’t want to be wearing a dress that is the exact shade of the bridesmaid dresses…. awkward.
Where to shop
The most fun part; shopping!
I love supporting small businesses, so if there is a local boutique near you, I’d recommend checking them out first! Many local boutiques offer super unique and adorable pieces that just might be perfect for wedding guest attire.
If you’re an online shopping queen like myself, check out Lulus.com! They usually have an entire section specifically for wedding guest attire. Their outfits are so pretty, great material, and usually offer free returns (so there’s no hurt in trying). Take a peek at the reviews before ordering; they’re usually super helpful.
More of an in-person shopper? Try Express! Express has men’s and women’s clothing for all types of dress codes. They have a huge selection of dressy-casual and classy outfits. You’re sure to find something you love.
