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The Ultimate Nashville Bachelorette Party

Before we dive right into all of the goodness that is Nashville…

Planning a wedding doesn’t only consist of planning for the actual wedding; lots of planning goes into hosting the ultimate bachelorette party. Most brides look forward to a weekend of crazy fun with their closest gals – dancing and partying the night away for one last hoo-rah before saying “I do”.

Majority of bachelorette parties are hosted by the maid of honor and the bridesmaids; however, some are thrown by the bride! If you’re a bride wanting to throw yourself a bachelorette party, that is a-o-k, but I recommend kindly suggesting your maid of honor and bridesmaids to host the party for you… after all, it is a party for you.

That being said, I’m writing this post and aiming it towards the sisters and best friends of the bride, tips and tricks on how to host the ultimate bachelorette party for the bride to be.

Bachelorette parties come in all different themes, sizes, and locations. It’s crucial to gather a little information from your bride before you start planning so you know what she wants and what’s totally off limits. This is when you can determine if the bride wants a low-key day of shopping and brunch, a cozy weekend at the cabin, or a wild night out complete with barhopping, pole-dancing, and bull-riding.

Find out who your bride wants at the party and get any contact information you might need for the rest of the bridesmaids and all the guests that you should be inviting.

Speaking of the guest list, consider the size of the list… Aim for at least 4 ladies, but no more than 15. Taking an uber, finding an Airbnb, and making dinner reservations will start getting really difficult if you have more than 15 ladies to include. Plus, imagine keeping track of 15 women on a wild night out downtown! Yikes, lol.

Wooo! You got some information from the bride. She wants a fun-filled party weekend with her bridesmaids but requested to go somewhere different rather than hit up the usual bars in her hometown. If it’s within everyone’s budget, go to Nashville!

I’m telling you; Nashville is the bachelorette capital of the world. Don’t believe me? Google it and you’ll be told the same exact thing. Nashville is a beautiful and fun city with so much to see and do, making it the ultimate destination for a bachelorette party with your favorite girls.

Keep reading and you’ll learn some of the best places to stay, best spots to eat, and the best bars to hit up on Broadway.

Choosing Your Bachelorette House in Nashville

When looking for the perfect place to call home for the weekend, check out Airbnb or Vrbo. Use the filters to narrow down your search and consider things like: how many beds, how many bathrooms, how close to downtown, etc.

Nashville’s Original Bachelorette House

Sleeps up to 12 guests comfortably
Only 1.4 miles from downtown Nashville
3 bathrooms to get ready in
Truly not just a place to stay, but an experience…

Food Food Food!

There are so many cool places to try in such little time! Here are some of the most unique places that are definitely worth checking out.

White Limozeen

This place boasts as a one-of-a-kind, indoor-outdoor restaurant and bar, with a beautiful rooftop pool. That being said, White Limozeen can be really hard to get into. Reservations are a must, and you have to book your reservation 2 weeks ahead of time. (Literally 2 weeks ahead, they only book out 2 weeks in advance… and those spots fill up fast.)

Hampton Social

A first-floor “Rose All Day” lounge, second-floor dining, and a new rooftop terrace make the Hampton Social a stunning spot for your lunch, dinner, or weekend brunch. Don’t forget to take a moment for some totally Instagram-worthy pics in front of their signature signs.

Pinewood Social

Whether you’re just wanting to chill out and eat delicious food, do a little bowling, or partake in some fun outdoor games, Pinewood Social is a sure spot to have a blast.

Hittin’ Up Broadway

If it’s a Friday or Saturday night, you’re likely to wait in line at the most popular bars on Broadway. But seriously, all of these bars are so. much. fun. Skip the long lines and check out the place next door! Though they’re all great, here are some of the bars that I loved checking out during my bachelorette party in Nashville.

  • Tootsies
  • Dierks Bentley’s Whiskey Row
  • Tin Roof
  • Jason Aldean’s Rooftop Bar
  • Honky Tonk Central
  • The Stage on Broadway
  • Kid Rock’s Bar
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10 Questions to Ask Venues Before Committing

You’re starting to dig into your wedding planning adventure. Selecting a wedding venue can be stressful but it doesn’t have to be! This part of the planning process can be such a fun experience for you and your fiancé. Just like a book… don’t judge a venue by its cover – good or bad.

You’ve found a venue that you really like, maybe you’ve found 3! How do you pick the venue that will be best for your wedding? Below are some key questions that are so important for you to ask your venue before committing and signing the contract.



Consider printing these questions to bring with you when you check out a venue!

  1. Is my preferred date/time available?
    You might have a specific day and time already set in your head for your wedding day, or maybe you’re lenient and okay with different dates as long as it’s during a specific season. Either way, talking to possible venues about this is obviously important. Some venues (especially since Covid) regularly book out weddings 1-3 years in advance! Don’t let yourself fall in love with a venue only to find out that you’d have to prolong your engagement longer than you were wanting to.

  2. What is the guest capacity?
    This question speaks for itself. Some venues can accommodate 300+ guests, while other venues only have the space for 50-75 guests. Be sure to sit down with your fiancé and consider your guest list before deciding on a venue… Trust me, friends, cousins, and co-workers can really bulk up the guest list if you’re not being careful and specific enough.

  3. How late can my wedding go?
    Some couples might not be all about the dancing and celebrating late into the night, but some want to party ’til the sun comes up! Most venues will set a curfew between 10pm and 1am. Find out if this also includes clean up time.

  4. Do you provide a day-of-coordinator?
    Before I got married, I barely knew what a day-of-coordinator was. My venue included a woman named Dorothy as my day-of-coordinator and ooooh my goodness she was fantastic! I honestly don’t know what I would have done without her. Not only was she there to assist during the rehearsal and to help with anything I needed on my wedding day, but she even helped me through the entire planning process. We had multiple meetings before my big day to go over set up, layout, food, tablecloth colors, etc. It’s a huge plus if your venue provides a day-of-coordinator!

  5. Is there a backup plan in case of inclement weather?
    Here is another one that is personal to me and SUPER important. Part of the reason why I chose my venue was because of the stunning view in the ceremony space – up on a mountain. Of course, there’s always the (sad) possibility that it will rain, storm, or in my case… multiple severe thunderstorms, during your ceremony. It’s important that if you are planning an outdoor ceremony or reception space that you have a backup in case of bad weather. Make sure you check out the backup plan too, just to make sure you would be fine with the space if need be!
    (My planned ceremony space vs. My indoor backup ceremony space.)


  6. Do you have a preferred vendor list and are we limited to that list?
    Some venues allow you to bring in any food or beverages for your wedding; while other venues require you to stick with either their catering and beverage service or from a company on their preferred vendor list. Though it’s not as common, sometimes vendors such as the DJ and florist are even on a preferred vendor list. This is a good question to ask just to confirm the vendors you are planning on using are allowed at the venue

  7. Do we have access to a bridal suite and groom’s suite on the day of?
    Though not all brides and grooms think it’s necessary, a bridal suite and a groom’s suite are both very helpful! If you are getting hair and/or makeup done on-site, the services are usually done in the bridal suite. These rooms also aid as a place from the bride and groom to stay hidden and away from each other until the ceremony or the first look. Plus, imagine how fun it would be to enjoy mimosas with your girls to calm your nerves before walking down the aisle!

  8. Can we set up the day before?
    If at all possible, setting up all your decorations and signage a day or two before the big day is so incredibly helpful. It can take some time to get everything arranged just how you want it and you already are busy enough on the morning of your wedding. As long as there isn’t another wedding in the same location or room the night before, you can usually set up in advance!

  9. What is all included in the price?
    Many venues will supply items such as chairs, tables, linens, dinnerware, etc. You can save a lot on rentals if your venue offers these types of items at no extra cost!

  10. What is your cancellation/reschedule policy?
    This question might also sound like a no-brainer; it’s very important. God forbid something happens where you have to either postpone or cancel your wedding (especially now with Covid), you want to make sure you are covered and that you aren’t out all of the money that you spent on your venue.



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Setting Your Budget

As much as we might not like to think about it, setting a budget for your wedding is one of the first steps you need to complete before really getting into the planning process.

Sure, you can find a beautiful venue, the perfect dress, and a DJ that you absolutely love… but what happens if you don’t consider your budget first?

Wedding planning can be stressful enough already, you don’t want to realize months into planning that you can’t afford it all and you need to look for more budget-friendly options.

WHAT AN AVERAGE WEDDING BUDGET LOOKS LIKE…

50 Percent: Venue + Catering

In most cases, at least half of your budget will go towards your venue and catering expenses and your venue.

Renting your venue can be pretty spendy; talk to your venue about pricing for the different seasons of the year, and the pricing for weddings on a Friday or Sunday versus a Saturday wedding.

Depending on the number of guests you’re planning to have at your wedding, catering is usually the highest ticket item.

Some couples decide to do a buffet rather than a plated dinner as it might be a little less expensive.

It’s also common (but not necessary) for couples to provide appetizers, dessert, a late-night snack, and sometimes beverages throughout the night.

15 Percent: Photography + Videography

Many brides and grooms don’t realize how expensive photography and videography for their wedding day can be. Do your research on different professionals in your area.

I booked a high schooler for my wedding videography; his pricing was very low compared to others I had found because he was so young and just getting started. However, he had been doing wedding videography for a few years already and other types of videography for a long time; it was his passion. I watched some videos from his portfolio, and they were amazing! I saved over $1,000 by taking a chance with a new up-and-coming videographer.

That being said, don’t totally skimp out on your wedding photographer and videography. After all, these are the photos and videos that you will look back on for years to come to cherish the best day of your life.

12 Percent: Bride + Groom Attire

Make sure you set aside at least 12% of your budget for all things wedding attire.

This will include your dress, tuxedo, shoes, jewelry, veil and tie. A dress and suit for your rehearsal dinner, bridal showers, and bachelorette/bachelor parties might also be needed.

You can also add any grooming services you might be interested in such as hair and makeup, manicure, pedicure and waxing.

10 Percent: Decor

When couples think of the decor needed for their wedding, some might say “centerpieces… what else?”

There are actually many other items that tie into the decor category. Decor can include flower arrangements, tablecloths, seat covers, event lighting, signage and more.

8 Percent: Music + Entertainment

Whether you’re interested in a DJ or a live band, the entertainment and your wedding is super important!

In my opinion, interactive DJ’s are fantastic at keeping guests engaged and having fun. Depending on your venue, you might also need to rent a dance floor.

5 Percent: Miscellaneous Spending

Okay… this can include so many things, but mostly the low-ticket items.

For items in this category, include your wedding bands, transportation (if necessary), stationary for your save the dates and invitations, and an officiant.

Tip: Save $400+ by getting a close friend or family member ordained (usually free) to officiate your ceremony for you.

BEFORE SETTING YOUR BUDGET, ASK YOURSELF THESE IMPORANT QUESTIONS….

Questions to Consider When Setting Your Budget

Who (if anyone) is helping you pay for the wedding, and much are they offering to contribute?

How many guests MUST be in attendance at your wedding?

What is most important to you?

What are you willing to splurge on?

What can you do without?

What is your budget?

How will you keep track of your budget?

AVOID THESE BUDGETING MISTAKES…

Oops! Top Budget Mistakes

Not being realistic

Not having a discussion with each person contributing to your wedding and determining who is paying for what

Not keeping track of your spending throughout the planning process

Not making decisions on what must be part of your wedding day versus what you could go without having

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Nail Your Engagement Photos

You’re Engaged! Congratulations!

Either you’re like me and you already have half the wedding planned out in your head, or you’re like the other half of the engaged population who is saying, “oh my god… now what?” Either way, it’s totally fine and completely normal! But there is one thing you should put your focus into first before getting totally fixated on the excitement of planning your big day… and that’s your engagement photos. Now not everybody decides to do an engagement photo session, but let me tell you, it is so much fun and really lets you get into that bride mood.

I feel that I am an extremely awkward person in these types of situations, posing with my fiancé in front of a photographer… weird. But there are some tips and advice that really helped me to feel so much more in my element, have fun during the session, and get beautiful photos as a result.

Tips to Nail Your Engagement Session

  1. Find the right photographer for you.
    There are so many photographers out there! It’s important to find a photographer that is not only in your budget, but also one that you can vibe with. I’ve met a number of professional photographers and while they all might take fabulous photos; their personality makes a huge difference in how your engagement session will leave you feeling. Some photographers are quiet and shy, while others are a little more outgoing. I have learned that the more outgoing photographers can really help you to relax and let go during your session. They aren’t afraid to tell you exactly how to pose and exactly where to venture off to for your most perfect photos.

    A huge plus: some photographers will include an engagement session in their price if you book your wedding day with them. If you find a photographer that you like, make sure to ask them if engagement sessions are built into the price or if they considered an add-on.
  2. Wear an outfit that you feel amazing in.
    This might sound obvious, but it’s quite honestly one of the most important things to remember for your engagement session – Wear something that makes you feel amazing, confident, and comfortable. Also, dress like yourself. Have you ever put on an outfit at home that you thought looked so trendy but as soon as you left the house you felt uncomfortable because it just wasn’t your style and you felt like you stuck out like a sore thumb? Been there. You don’t want to feel like this during your session – if you feel uncomfortable, you will look uncomfortable.

    Most photographers will tell you to plan 2-3 outfits for your session. Make sure you ask your photographer in advance how many outfit changes you should be prepared for. It’s best to plan one outfit that is classy, something you would wear for a special occasion. Then choose a couple more outfits that are more laid-back. For example, cute jeans and a flowy blouse or a cozy sweater. One more thing, don’t neglect your significant other! The two of you should go over your outfit choices together to be sure that they go well with each other. You don’t want to be wearing a stunning white dress while your fiancé is wearing jeans, boots, and a flannel.
  3. Plan your timing.
    The time of day and the lighting will make a huge difference in the quality of your photos. Have you heard of golden hour? Golden hour is the period of time either right before sunset or right after sunrise when the sunlight is infused with red and gold tones. Photos taken during golden hour turn out so soft, pretty, and with a gorgeous glow. This is hands down the best time to get your pictures taken.
  4. Consider professional hair and makeup.
    Even if makeup isn’t really your thing and you prefer your hair up in a ponytail most days, consider getting professional hair and makeup for your engagement session. Photos require a little more detail and saturation than your everyday look, otherwise you might end up looking washed out. Be upfront with your makeup artist and hair stylist and let them know exactly the look you’re going for. If you want something a little more dramatic, let them know. If you want subtle tones with light foundation and a little bronzer, that’s perfect too!
  5. Be yourself and have FUN.
    It’s totally okay to search Pinterest for fun pose ideas, but don’t forget to be yourself. Each couple’s session is unique and it’s important for your photos to reflect your personalities; after all, an engagement session exists to capture the love between yourself and your significant other. If you’re a little nervous, consider making a date out of the occasion and grab a drink before you make your way to the session. If you are having fun, it will show in your pictures. Your true happiness and the love that you have for each other will shine and you will have beautiful photos to show for it.

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Say Yes To Your Dress

“Selecting a wedding dress is more than just a fitting… it’s a process – a memory in the making.”

– Olivelli Cape Town

Selecting your wedding dress is a huge deal. Whether you’re browsing gowns online, scheduling appointments at multiple bridal shops, or thinking of wearing a vintage hand-me-down for some sentimental value, you want to make sure you look and feel your best!

Each bride will have a different experience when searching for their perfect dress… Some brides will try on 3 dresses and go back and forth unable to decide, some brides will feel discouraged when they try on what feels like a million dresses but still isn’t finding the one, and other brides will try their first dress on, sheds some tears, and say YES to the dress.

Just keep in mind that this IS a process, and while it can take some time, this is a beautiful journey that you will remember for the rest of your life.

One of the most important things to consider before shopping for your wedding dress is deciding who is joining you during your search.

If you’ve ever watched the popular tv show “Say Yes to the Dress” (a personal favorite, by the way), then you have seen just how important it is to have an audience with you that is supportive of you and your style.

It can also be a good idea to do a little research before heading out on the hunt for your perfect dress.

Below are some examples of the most popular styles of wedding dress silhouettes.

The Ball Gown

When people picture a ball gown, most envision a dress that would first be seen in a fairytale. A ball gown features a fitted bodice and a full skirt (the fuller the skirt – the more dramatic)!

Dress: Mori Lee Kristalina
The Wedding Shoppe

The A-Line Dress

Similar to the ball gown, an A-line dress begins with a fitted bodice. The main difference between the two is the skirt. A-line dresses have a gradual flared skirt. This silhouette is known for flattering all body types.

Dress: Madeline Gardner Amabelle
The Wedding Shoppe

The Mermaid Dress

Can you say glam?? This style of dress is for the brides that are going for a sultry, sexy look to show off their beautiful curves. The curve-hugging bodice extends down the waist and the skirt begins to flare at the knees. Mermaid dresses give ultimate hourglass effect.

Dress: Rebecca Ingram Hattie
The Wedding Shoppe

The Sheath Dress

The sheath silhouette provides a modern and easy-going look. These dresses offer a straight shape that simply skims over your body, letting your natural shape shine.

Dress: Allure Romance 3101
The Wedding Shoppe

The Jumpsuit

Not all brides imagine themselves in a dress. A jumpsuit is fun and polished and provides extra comfort, making it easier to bust-a-move on the dance floor! Jumpsuit styles typically come in wide-leg or slim-cut options.

Dress: The Other White Dress by Mori Lee Bridget
The Wedding Shoppe

While there are endless styles and features to make up your perfect wedding dress, I’m sure you’ll find the one for you!

Aside from just the silhouettes, think about the color (not all brides want white!), the neckline, the train (short, long, super long??), and sleeves.

Just remember to bring a support system with you, do a little bit of research beforehand, and ENJOY your experience; you can do it!

Need a little more inspiration? Click the Pinterest link below and check out the huge selection of bridal dresses I have personally drooled over.