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5 Things Brides Regret Skipping at Their Wedding

Wedding planning is a lot… You’re constantly facing new decisions, and these decisions have so many factors (cost, timing, your happiness, happiness of your guests, etc.).

I have dug into various wedding-related social networking groups and rallied up 5 of the most common things that brides regret not doing at their wedding.

So, if you’re in the midst of your wedding planning, keep reading and make sure you give these 5 things a little extra thought before tossing them to the side.

#1… Not giving the photographer a must-have photo checklist

Your wedding photos are so important. Plus, you most likely end up spending a fortune on a wonderful photographer.

Not getting the fun photo of you and your partner walking down the aisle after the ceremony, or the sentimental photo of yourself with your grandparents, is a big deal.

Before the big day, send over a checklist to your photographer of any photos you absolutely can’t miss out on.

Consider the following:

  • Front and back pictures of you (just you) in your wedding dress
  • Group pictures if your bridal party, and 1 on 1 pictures of you with each one of them
  • Locations at your venue that you want a picture near
  • Special moments you want captured (dances, speeches, etc.)
  • Anything else that you must-have photographed, or not photographed at your wedding

#2… Not wearing comfortable Wedding Shoes

Of course, you want the dreamy bridal heels you’ve been eyeing up for months now.

Just keep in mind that you will be in these shoes all day, and night long.

Can you do it? You don’t want to sacrifice dancing the night away because the blisters on your feet are killing your vibe.

Consider getting a second pair of shoes to switch into after the ceremony. There are loads of beautiful bridal flats that are both comfortable and stylish.

#3… Not making a bridal emergency kit

It’s important to look your best and feel your best on your wedding day. I’m sure you also want your bridal party and close family to feel this way too.

Bring an emergency kit (or ask you MOH to help put one together) that is filled with everything you just might need on your wedding day.

Here’s some great examples of what to stock in your kit:

  • Bobby pins, hair ties, hairspray, curling iron
  • Chapstick and lipstick
  • Concealer and powder
  • Blotting paper – we don’t want oily foreheads in pictures
  • Tide-to-go
  • Gum or mints
  • Floss
  • Advil, tums, eye drops
  • Kleenex (lots of it)
  • Phone charger
  • Tampons
  • Bottles of water

#4… Not hiring a videographer

I contemplated this one for a while, and I’m soooo glad that I hired a videographer.

Think of all the amazing moments that you can capture on video…

The happy tears you and your best friend share while getting ready. The tears your mom sheds while helping you into your dress. Your first look, or you walking down the aisle and the look on your partners face when they see you. All of the speeches. Your first dance and all of the other special dances.

Many couples watch their wedding video together on their anniversaries as a tradition.

(Tip: Ask your videographer if they supply both an edited highlight video of the entire day and also the raw footage with speeches etc.)

#5… Not spending some alone time with your partner

Unless you and your partner do a first look, you most likely won’t get much alone time, if any.

Many brides recommend putting aside 10-20 minutes after the ceremony, before dinner, or after your first dance to run away with your partner.

You will be so busy all day, having some time to sit and soak it all in with your newly wedded is important.

There are so many guests to talk to, so many things to do and keep on schedule throughout the day… You might realize the end of the night is near and you’ve barely been able to speak with your new husband or wife.

Go hide in a closet somewhere and get some quality 1 on 1 time that you’ll remember forever.

This one is a bonus…

My biggest regret from my wedding isn’t on this list, so I figured I’d quickly share mine – just in case it helps any of you!

Squishing too much into too little time.

From the time that speeches and dinner started until I finished my first dance, I felt like I was constantly being pulled in different directions.

We had many speeches (each groomsman decided to surprise us with lengthy and very un-prepared speeches, when we were only planning on hearing a speech from the best man).

During dinner, my photographer pulled me to do sunset photos outside. This isn’t on her! I understand that sunset photos need to be done at a certain time to get them just right. I just didn’t plan for it being in the middle of dinner.

Once I got back from sunset photos, my DJ was pulling me saying we’re behind schedule and dances need to start…

Basically, I crammed too many things into too little time. I barely got to eat any of my dinner.

The worst part… we purchased cupcakes for all of our guests, and spent a good chunk on a beautiful cake that was meant for the head table and all of our closest family.

Guess what? With all the craziness going on, not a single person, not even myself or my husband had a piece of this cake… not one single piece all night long. It was completely forgotten about.

Thanks for listening to my little vent sesh (lol).

Just remember to plan a schedule with the times that each “event” at your wedding with start and end – but add LOTS of wiggle room in between. Things will run behind schedule.

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Destination Weddings… Worth The Hype?

A topic that has left engaged couples hemming and hawing: destination weddings.

When my husband and I first started our wedding planning, he was totally into the idea of having a destination wedding… I on the other hand was so not into it. Now that we’re married, and our wedding day has come and gone (wouldn’t trade it for anything, best day ever), I can definitely see why some couples choose to have a destination wedding.

Like just about everything else in the world of wedding planning, destination weddings have their lists of pros and cons – but overall, it comes down to one question… Is it right for you?

Pros

  1. Wedding + Vacation All-In-One

    Maybe the most obvious pro… Who doesn’t love a vacation? Of course, this is great for yourself and your significant other, but think about how excited your guests will be to realize they get a bonus vacation when they attend your wedding!

    Not everyone gets the opportunity to get together with their best friends and family and go far away to luxury land of relaxation and enjoy time together – this is it folks.

  2. Less Is More

    Planning a wedding consists of so many things. One of the biggest stressors on your to-do list might be decor.

    Now imagine getting married in a beautiful place like Jamacia; the ocean will most likely be your backdrop for the ceremony.

    If you’re getting married at a resort, the resort itself most likely has gorgeous lush gardens, beaches, etc. so you really won’t need to focus much at all on your own decor.

  3. Built-In Honeymoon

    As soon as the party is over, you and your new spouse don’t have to deal with travel for your honeymoon. You’re already there and ready to relax and enjoy your time together as newlyweds.

    You can enjoy your honeymoon in a couple different ways – continue to spend time with your friends and family who joined you in celebrating your wedding day, or you might opt for some special alone time. Either way is possible when you have a destination wedding.

  4. More Affordable

    Believe it or not, but destination weddings are generally less expensive. Granted you have to take flights and hotel/resort stays into account, but most resorts offer incredible deals when you’re traveling for your wedding.

    Be sure to ask the resort about wedding packages; many offer packages that include photography, food, free night stays, and more.

    When you consider all of the separate charges you’ll have for a wedding in your hometown, destination weddings can definitely be the more affordable route.

    >> Check out these fast and easy side hustles to save some extra cash for your wedding and honeymoon <<

  5. Intimate Celebration

    Lots of couples struggle with their guest list. Whether they have to fit a large number of guests into a limited capacity venue, or if they’re trying to find the right words to let their fifty 2nd and 3rd cousins know that they aren’t invited… setting your guest list is stressful.

    Having a destination wedding is a great excuse for only inviting those friends and family members that you feel especially close to; no need to invite your Great Aunt Karen that you haven’t heard from in 10 years.

Cons

  1. Planning Can Be Challenging

    Wedding planning can be challenging in general… add a foreign country to the mix and you’re sure to deal with a few extra dilemmas.

    Meeting with vendors is an important aspect in wedding planning, but when you’re getting married somewhere far away it can be impossible to meet you vendors in advance.

    Of course, communicating with your vendors via email or phone might be possible, but also consider that there may be language barrier depending on where you’re headed to.

    Destination weddings can also be more challenging if you are not familiar with the area. Planning transportation, timing out the routes, and reserving stays for your guest can all be more difficult if you don’t know your way around.

  2. Not All Your Guests Can Make It

    If you’re looking for a more intimate wedding celebration, a destination wedding might work great for you. However, if you’ve always wanted a huge wedding with 300+ guests, you might want to rethink the ‘destination’ part. In most cases, destination weddings do not have the capacity for a larger scale wedding.

    Also consider which of your guests might not be able to make it for their own personal reasons. Destination weddings require your guests to take time off from work, find childcare (dog-sitter in my world), and have the funds for plane flights, hotel, etc. Aside from those types of personal reasons, remember the guests that might not be physically able to travel far away.

    One of the main reasons I decided against a destination wedding was because my grandma would not be able to make it for health reasons… and it was so important to me that she be there on my wedding day.

  3. Be Aware of Fraudulence

    Many people don’t realize just how common this is. Not having much knowledge of the area, resort, and the local vendors you may be using can lead to you being scammed.

    It sounds like a no-brainer, but do your fair share of research before committing or signing any contracts. Having a professional wedding planner is a great help! Most wedding planners with a lot of experience will have connections with vendors in popular wedding destination countries.
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DIY: Bridesmaid Proposal Boxes

Getting engaged and beginning to plan your wedding is so exciting. One of the first things you might do is consider who will be in your bridal party… Whether it’s your sisters, best friends, childhood friends, cousins, or co-workers, asking someone to be your bridesmaid is so special! Many brides choose to amp up the fun a bit by proposing to their bridesmaids with a gift or a ‘proposal box’. This can be such a fun way to get your ladies involved and let them know how much it means to you to have them standing by your side on what will be one of the biggest days of your life.

Okay, so what even is a bridesmaid proposal box??

Typically, a bridesmaid proposal box is filled with a variety of small health, beauty, and lifestyle items. These items can be the same for each bridesmaid, or you could customize based on what each bridesmaid might like. You can get super creative or stay as basic as you’d like, and you still will end up with an amazing bridesmaid proposal box no matter what. The options are endless!

Putting it all together

Of course, you can use any type of box that you prefer, but I definitely recommend these simple boxes from Amazon. I used these same boxes when I proposed to my bridesmaids, and they worked wonderfully! Good price, sooo easy to put together, and the perfect size. You can spruce up the outside of the box by tying a ribbon or some twine around it. Adding a little filler to the bottom of the box is a nice touch; you can find this at the dollar store! Once you have your box ready, it’s time to figure out what you want to put in it…

Fill that box, girl

Like I said, you can fill your proposal boxes with whatever you’d like, but here are some fun items I chose to add to my boxes and some other cute suggestions that are worth checking out to fill up your box!

  • Personalized scrunchies or hair ties
  • Face masks
  • Nail polish (maybe your wedding color?)
  • Jewelry to wear at the wedding
    I got my girls personalized bracelets from Accent Culture and they were SO cute. Each bracelet had their initial on it, and they were all a rose gold color (which looked great with their dresses at the wedding).
  • Mini bottle of champagne or wine
  • Personalized wine glass or champagne flute
  • Scented candle
  • Bath bomb
  • Their favorite candy
  • Picture of the two of you

Don’t forget the card

Adding a cute card or note front and center in the box is important! Your girls are probably wondering why you’re giving them this adorable box with gifts inside; have a card situated on top of the gifts asking them to be your bridesmaid. Check out these cute cards on Amazon:

Now you’re ready to meet up with your best gals and ask them to be a party of your big day. Be prepared for some tears!

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What To Wear To A Wedding

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Did you know that “what to wear to a wedding” is the most commonly searched wedding-related topic on google?

If you’re anything like me, you’ll stand in front of your closet for ever, staring at your clothes and saying, “I have nothing to wear”. Then you’ll search multiple boutiques and online stores trying to find the perfect outfit.

You’ll order 5 dresses, return 4, and still not be certain about the 1 dress that you kept… But it really doesn’t have to be that stressful!

Check out LYIMI’s Pinterest for inspiration on adorable wedding guest attire and where to find them.

Ask about the dress code

Weddings are all so different. Some might have strict dress codes and others might not have even put a minute into considering asking guests to abide by a dress code.

It’s necessary to check in with the bride-to-be on what the dress code for the wedding will be.

Many brides will list the dress code right on the save the date or the invitation; but still, understanding the dress code language can be tricky to decipher.

Black-Tie

This is the most formal wedding dress code that you will see.
Men: Tuxedo (black tie, black vest, and black leather shoes are also recommended.
Women: Formal floor-length dress or gown. Another option is a formal jumpsuit that covers your ankles.

Cocktail

Cocktail attire is usually the most popular dress code at a wedding.
Men: A Tuxedo is not required, but men must still wear a suit and tie.
Women: Rather than a floor-length gown, women should wear a midi dress or a knee-length dress. Think classy but still comfortable.

Semi-Formal / Dress Casual

In this dress code, take the venue, the time of day, and the season into account to help you decide on what to wear. Light colors and fabrics for a daytime wedding; more formal, darker colors for an evening event.
Men: Slacks and a dress shirt (wearing a tie is optional).
Women: A dressy skirt and top, a pretty dress, or a classy pantsuit. Floor-length gowns are inappropriate when it comes to this dress code.

Casual

Casual attire weddings are usually much more laid back. That being said, jeans, baseball caps, shorts, and tank tops are still inappropriate unless otherwise announced.
Men: Khakis or dress pants and a collared shirt. Absolutely no tennis shoes or t-shirts.
Women: Sundresses! This is your opportunity to wear an adorable sundress – whether the wedding is outdoors or indoors. Or you could opt for nice pants and a cute top! Dressy sandals or wedges are perfect.

What should I NOT wear…?

The first and most obvious: Absolutely do NOT wear a white dress. It’s a common rule of thumb that you should just never wear white to a wedding unless the couple requests all-white attire.

No matter the dress code, you should also never wear jeans or sneakers to a wedding as a guest.

Lastly, try not to match the bridal party! You don’t want to be wearing a dress that is the exact shade of the bridesmaid dresses…. awkward.

Where to shop

The most fun part; shopping!

I love supporting small businesses, so if there is a local boutique near you, I’d recommend checking them out first! Many local boutiques offer super unique and adorable pieces that just might be perfect for wedding guest attire.

If you’re an online shopping queen like myself, check out Lulus.com! They usually have an entire section specifically for wedding guest attire. Their outfits are so pretty, great material, and usually offer free returns (so there’s no hurt in trying). Take a peek at the reviews before ordering; they’re usually super helpful.

More of an in-person shopper? Try Express! Express has men’s and women’s clothing for all types of dress codes. They have a huge selection of dressy-casual and classy outfits. You’re sure to find something you love.

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Top Wedding Themes in 2022

Soooo, you’ve been spending hours searching Pinterest for the perfect theme, colors, and decor for your wedding? Well, you’re not alone! But look no further; I’m sharing the top wedding themes in 2022 and giving you all of the inspiration to achieve them. Don’t get me wrong; Pinterest is key for all of your wedding inspiration and ideas, but I’m here to break it down for you. Scroll through this post and get a good grasp on what themes best fit your style… then go check out LYIMI’s Pinterest to help that vision of yours come to life.

Most Loved Wedding Themes in 2022

1. Boho Chic

The ever-popular boho chic theme gets more and more gorgeous every year. You really can’t go wrong with earthy tones such as Terracotta, Olive, and Beige. Think cozy, artsy, and elegant all at once and you’ve got boho chic. Just take a look at these beautiful boho chic weddings!

2. Rustic

Rustic weddings seem to always be high on the list of top wedding themes. Usually a little more laidback, rustic decor tends to include items like mason jars and wood slices. Tip: There are tons of b-e-a-utiful barn venues around the country for the ultimate rustic vibe.

3. Whimsical + Romantic

If you’re a bride dreaming of a fairytale wedding, a whimsical and romantic theme is for you. Whimsical is defined as playful and fanciful – basically, there are no rules within this theme. Think extra… like ‘riding away on a horse and carriage with your significant other after the ceremony’ extra.

4. Beach Wedding

Whether you want a destination wedding or a wedding closer to home, a beach theme could work perfectly. Minimal decor is needed for a beach wedding – you already have the sun and the sand, and a beautiful ocean (or lake) for a backdrop. Just be sure to offer plenty of shady areas for your guests and have a backup plan in the event of inclement weather.

man and woman standing on brown rock under blue sky
beach wedding event under white clouds and clear sky during daytime
man wearing blue suit jacket and woman wearing white wedding gown sitting on white canoe boat

5. Winter Wonderland

Imagine soft and fluffy snow, slowly falling from the dimmed sky on your wedding night… How magical does that sound?? Opt for soft blues, whites, and silvers for your color palette. A venue with a fireplace would make dinner extra cozy for your guests. If Christmas is your favorite holiday, there are countless ways to add gorgeous touches of the holiday season into your wedding day.

vacation winter table decoration

Now that you’ve explored some of the top wedding themes for 2022, it’s time to narrow it down and get to planning the wedding of your dreams. I hope this article sparked some inspiration. Need ideas on how to make your theme come to life? Contact us, we’re always here to help!

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The Ultimate Nashville Bachelorette Party

Before we dive right into all of the goodness that is Nashville…

Planning a wedding doesn’t only consist of planning for the actual wedding; lots of planning goes into hosting the ultimate bachelorette party. Most brides look forward to a weekend of crazy fun with their closest gals – dancing and partying the night away for one last hoo-rah before saying “I do”.

Majority of bachelorette parties are hosted by the maid of honor and the bridesmaids; however, some are thrown by the bride! If you’re a bride wanting to throw yourself a bachelorette party, that is a-o-k, but I recommend kindly suggesting your maid of honor and bridesmaids to host the party for you… after all, it is a party for you.

That being said, I’m writing this post and aiming it towards the sisters and best friends of the bride, tips and tricks on how to host the ultimate bachelorette party for the bride to be.

Bachelorette parties come in all different themes, sizes, and locations. It’s crucial to gather a little information from your bride before you start planning so you know what she wants and what’s totally off limits. This is when you can determine if the bride wants a low-key day of shopping and brunch, a cozy weekend at the cabin, or a wild night out complete with barhopping, pole-dancing, and bull-riding.

Find out who your bride wants at the party and get any contact information you might need for the rest of the bridesmaids and all the guests that you should be inviting.

Speaking of the guest list, consider the size of the list… Aim for at least 4 ladies, but no more than 15. Taking an uber, finding an Airbnb, and making dinner reservations will start getting really difficult if you have more than 15 ladies to include. Plus, imagine keeping track of 15 women on a wild night out downtown! Yikes, lol.

Wooo! You got some information from the bride. She wants a fun-filled party weekend with her bridesmaids but requested to go somewhere different rather than hit up the usual bars in her hometown. If it’s within everyone’s budget, go to Nashville!

I’m telling you; Nashville is the bachelorette capital of the world. Don’t believe me? Google it and you’ll be told the same exact thing. Nashville is a beautiful and fun city with so much to see and do, making it the ultimate destination for a bachelorette party with your favorite girls.

Keep reading and you’ll learn some of the best places to stay, best spots to eat, and the best bars to hit up on Broadway.

Choosing Your Bachelorette House in Nashville

When looking for the perfect place to call home for the weekend, check out Airbnb or Vrbo. Use the filters to narrow down your search and consider things like: how many beds, how many bathrooms, how close to downtown, etc.

Nashville’s Original Bachelorette House

Sleeps up to 12 guests comfortably
Only 1.4 miles from downtown Nashville
3 bathrooms to get ready in
Truly not just a place to stay, but an experience…

Food Food Food!

There are so many cool places to try in such little time! Here are some of the most unique places that are definitely worth checking out.

White Limozeen

This place boasts as a one-of-a-kind, indoor-outdoor restaurant and bar, with a beautiful rooftop pool. That being said, White Limozeen can be really hard to get into. Reservations are a must, and you have to book your reservation 2 weeks ahead of time. (Literally 2 weeks ahead, they only book out 2 weeks in advance… and those spots fill up fast.)

Hampton Social

A first-floor “Rose All Day” lounge, second-floor dining, and a new rooftop terrace make the Hampton Social a stunning spot for your lunch, dinner, or weekend brunch. Don’t forget to take a moment for some totally Instagram-worthy pics in front of their signature signs.

Pinewood Social

Whether you’re just wanting to chill out and eat delicious food, do a little bowling, or partake in some fun outdoor games, Pinewood Social is a sure spot to have a blast.

Hittin’ Up Broadway

If it’s a Friday or Saturday night, you’re likely to wait in line at the most popular bars on Broadway. But seriously, all of these bars are so. much. fun. Skip the long lines and check out the place next door! Though they’re all great, here are some of the bars that I loved checking out during my bachelorette party in Nashville.

  • Tootsies
  • Dierks Bentley’s Whiskey Row
  • Tin Roof
  • Jason Aldean’s Rooftop Bar
  • Honky Tonk Central
  • The Stage on Broadway
  • Kid Rock’s Bar
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10 Questions to Ask Venues Before Committing

You’re starting to dig into your wedding planning adventure. Selecting a wedding venue can be stressful but it doesn’t have to be! This part of the planning process can be such a fun experience for you and your fiancé. Just like a book… don’t judge a venue by its cover – good or bad.

You’ve found a venue that you really like, maybe you’ve found 3! How do you pick the venue that will be best for your wedding? Below are some key questions that are so important for you to ask your venue before committing and signing the contract.



Consider printing these questions to bring with you when you check out a venue!

  1. Is my preferred date/time available?
    You might have a specific day and time already set in your head for your wedding day, or maybe you’re lenient and okay with different dates as long as it’s during a specific season. Either way, talking to possible venues about this is obviously important. Some venues (especially since Covid) regularly book out weddings 1-3 years in advance! Don’t let yourself fall in love with a venue only to find out that you’d have to prolong your engagement longer than you were wanting to.

  2. What is the guest capacity?
    This question speaks for itself. Some venues can accommodate 300+ guests, while other venues only have the space for 50-75 guests. Be sure to sit down with your fiancé and consider your guest list before deciding on a venue… Trust me, friends, cousins, and co-workers can really bulk up the guest list if you’re not being careful and specific enough.

  3. How late can my wedding go?
    Some couples might not be all about the dancing and celebrating late into the night, but some want to party ’til the sun comes up! Most venues will set a curfew between 10pm and 1am. Find out if this also includes clean up time.

  4. Do you provide a day-of-coordinator?
    Before I got married, I barely knew what a day-of-coordinator was. My venue included a woman named Dorothy as my day-of-coordinator and ooooh my goodness she was fantastic! I honestly don’t know what I would have done without her. Not only was she there to assist during the rehearsal and to help with anything I needed on my wedding day, but she even helped me through the entire planning process. We had multiple meetings before my big day to go over set up, layout, food, tablecloth colors, etc. It’s a huge plus if your venue provides a day-of-coordinator!

  5. Is there a backup plan in case of inclement weather?
    Here is another one that is personal to me and SUPER important. Part of the reason why I chose my venue was because of the stunning view in the ceremony space – up on a mountain. Of course, there’s always the (sad) possibility that it will rain, storm, or in my case… multiple severe thunderstorms, during your ceremony. It’s important that if you are planning an outdoor ceremony or reception space that you have a backup in case of bad weather. Make sure you check out the backup plan too, just to make sure you would be fine with the space if need be!
    (My planned ceremony space vs. My indoor backup ceremony space.)


  6. Do you have a preferred vendor list and are we limited to that list?
    Some venues allow you to bring in any food or beverages for your wedding; while other venues require you to stick with either their catering and beverage service or from a company on their preferred vendor list. Though it’s not as common, sometimes vendors such as the DJ and florist are even on a preferred vendor list. This is a good question to ask just to confirm the vendors you are planning on using are allowed at the venue

  7. Do we have access to a bridal suite and groom’s suite on the day of?
    Though not all brides and grooms think it’s necessary, a bridal suite and a groom’s suite are both very helpful! If you are getting hair and/or makeup done on-site, the services are usually done in the bridal suite. These rooms also aid as a place from the bride and groom to stay hidden and away from each other until the ceremony or the first look. Plus, imagine how fun it would be to enjoy mimosas with your girls to calm your nerves before walking down the aisle!

  8. Can we set up the day before?
    If at all possible, setting up all your decorations and signage a day or two before the big day is so incredibly helpful. It can take some time to get everything arranged just how you want it and you already are busy enough on the morning of your wedding. As long as there isn’t another wedding in the same location or room the night before, you can usually set up in advance!

  9. What is all included in the price?
    Many venues will supply items such as chairs, tables, linens, dinnerware, etc. You can save a lot on rentals if your venue offers these types of items at no extra cost!

  10. What is your cancellation/reschedule policy?
    This question might also sound like a no-brainer; it’s very important. God forbid something happens where you have to either postpone or cancel your wedding (especially now with Covid), you want to make sure you are covered and that you aren’t out all of the money that you spent on your venue.



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Setting Your Budget

As much as we might not like to think about it, setting a budget for your wedding is one of the first steps you need to complete before really getting into the planning process.

Sure, you can find a beautiful venue, the perfect dress, and a DJ that you absolutely love… but what happens if you don’t consider your budget first?

Wedding planning can be stressful enough already, you don’t want to realize months into planning that you can’t afford it all and you need to look for more budget-friendly options.

WHAT AN AVERAGE WEDDING BUDGET LOOKS LIKE…

50 Percent: Venue + Catering

In most cases, at least half of your budget will go towards your venue and catering expenses and your venue.

Renting your venue can be pretty spendy; talk to your venue about pricing for the different seasons of the year, and the pricing for weddings on a Friday or Sunday versus a Saturday wedding.

Depending on the number of guests you’re planning to have at your wedding, catering is usually the highest ticket item.

Some couples decide to do a buffet rather than a plated dinner as it might be a little less expensive.

It’s also common (but not necessary) for couples to provide appetizers, dessert, a late-night snack, and sometimes beverages throughout the night.

15 Percent: Photography + Videography

Many brides and grooms don’t realize how expensive photography and videography for their wedding day can be. Do your research on different professionals in your area.

I booked a high schooler for my wedding videography; his pricing was very low compared to others I had found because he was so young and just getting started. However, he had been doing wedding videography for a few years already and other types of videography for a long time; it was his passion. I watched some videos from his portfolio, and they were amazing! I saved over $1,000 by taking a chance with a new up-and-coming videographer.

That being said, don’t totally skimp out on your wedding photographer and videography. After all, these are the photos and videos that you will look back on for years to come to cherish the best day of your life.

12 Percent: Bride + Groom Attire

Make sure you set aside at least 12% of your budget for all things wedding attire.

This will include your dress, tuxedo, shoes, jewelry, veil and tie. A dress and suit for your rehearsal dinner, bridal showers, and bachelorette/bachelor parties might also be needed.

You can also add any grooming services you might be interested in such as hair and makeup, manicure, pedicure and waxing.

10 Percent: Decor

When couples think of the decor needed for their wedding, some might say “centerpieces… what else?”

There are actually many other items that tie into the decor category. Decor can include flower arrangements, tablecloths, seat covers, event lighting, signage and more.

8 Percent: Music + Entertainment

Whether you’re interested in a DJ or a live band, the entertainment and your wedding is super important!

In my opinion, interactive DJ’s are fantastic at keeping guests engaged and having fun. Depending on your venue, you might also need to rent a dance floor.

5 Percent: Miscellaneous Spending

Okay… this can include so many things, but mostly the low-ticket items.

For items in this category, include your wedding bands, transportation (if necessary), stationary for your save the dates and invitations, and an officiant.

Tip: Save $400+ by getting a close friend or family member ordained (usually free) to officiate your ceremony for you.

BEFORE SETTING YOUR BUDGET, ASK YOURSELF THESE IMPORANT QUESTIONS….

Questions to Consider When Setting Your Budget

Who (if anyone) is helping you pay for the wedding, and much are they offering to contribute?

How many guests MUST be in attendance at your wedding?

What is most important to you?

What are you willing to splurge on?

What can you do without?

What is your budget?

How will you keep track of your budget?

AVOID THESE BUDGETING MISTAKES…

Oops! Top Budget Mistakes

Not being realistic

Not having a discussion with each person contributing to your wedding and determining who is paying for what

Not keeping track of your spending throughout the planning process

Not making decisions on what must be part of your wedding day versus what you could go without having

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Nail Your Engagement Photos

You’re Engaged! Congratulations!

Either you’re like me and you already have half the wedding planned out in your head, or you’re like the other half of the engaged population who is saying, “oh my god… now what?” Either way, it’s totally fine and completely normal! But there is one thing you should put your focus into first before getting totally fixated on the excitement of planning your big day… and that’s your engagement photos. Now not everybody decides to do an engagement photo session, but let me tell you, it is so much fun and really lets you get into that bride mood.

I feel that I am an extremely awkward person in these types of situations, posing with my fiancé in front of a photographer… weird. But there are some tips and advice that really helped me to feel so much more in my element, have fun during the session, and get beautiful photos as a result.

Tips to Nail Your Engagement Session

  1. Find the right photographer for you.
    There are so many photographers out there! It’s important to find a photographer that is not only in your budget, but also one that you can vibe with. I’ve met a number of professional photographers and while they all might take fabulous photos; their personality makes a huge difference in how your engagement session will leave you feeling. Some photographers are quiet and shy, while others are a little more outgoing. I have learned that the more outgoing photographers can really help you to relax and let go during your session. They aren’t afraid to tell you exactly how to pose and exactly where to venture off to for your most perfect photos.

    A huge plus: some photographers will include an engagement session in their price if you book your wedding day with them. If you find a photographer that you like, make sure to ask them if engagement sessions are built into the price or if they considered an add-on.
  2. Wear an outfit that you feel amazing in.
    This might sound obvious, but it’s quite honestly one of the most important things to remember for your engagement session – Wear something that makes you feel amazing, confident, and comfortable. Also, dress like yourself. Have you ever put on an outfit at home that you thought looked so trendy but as soon as you left the house you felt uncomfortable because it just wasn’t your style and you felt like you stuck out like a sore thumb? Been there. You don’t want to feel like this during your session – if you feel uncomfortable, you will look uncomfortable.

    Most photographers will tell you to plan 2-3 outfits for your session. Make sure you ask your photographer in advance how many outfit changes you should be prepared for. It’s best to plan one outfit that is classy, something you would wear for a special occasion. Then choose a couple more outfits that are more laid-back. For example, cute jeans and a flowy blouse or a cozy sweater. One more thing, don’t neglect your significant other! The two of you should go over your outfit choices together to be sure that they go well with each other. You don’t want to be wearing a stunning white dress while your fiancé is wearing jeans, boots, and a flannel.
  3. Plan your timing.
    The time of day and the lighting will make a huge difference in the quality of your photos. Have you heard of golden hour? Golden hour is the period of time either right before sunset or right after sunrise when the sunlight is infused with red and gold tones. Photos taken during golden hour turn out so soft, pretty, and with a gorgeous glow. This is hands down the best time to get your pictures taken.
  4. Consider professional hair and makeup.
    Even if makeup isn’t really your thing and you prefer your hair up in a ponytail most days, consider getting professional hair and makeup for your engagement session. Photos require a little more detail and saturation than your everyday look, otherwise you might end up looking washed out. Be upfront with your makeup artist and hair stylist and let them know exactly the look you’re going for. If you want something a little more dramatic, let them know. If you want subtle tones with light foundation and a little bronzer, that’s perfect too!
  5. Be yourself and have FUN.
    It’s totally okay to search Pinterest for fun pose ideas, but don’t forget to be yourself. Each couple’s session is unique and it’s important for your photos to reflect your personalities; after all, an engagement session exists to capture the love between yourself and your significant other. If you’re a little nervous, consider making a date out of the occasion and grab a drink before you make your way to the session. If you are having fun, it will show in your pictures. Your true happiness and the love that you have for each other will shine and you will have beautiful photos to show for it.

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Say Yes To Your Dress

“Selecting a wedding dress is more than just a fitting… it’s a process – a memory in the making.”

– Olivelli Cape Town

Selecting your wedding dress is a huge deal. Whether you’re browsing gowns online, scheduling appointments at multiple bridal shops, or thinking of wearing a vintage hand-me-down for some sentimental value, you want to make sure you look and feel your best!

Each bride will have a different experience when searching for their perfect dress… Some brides will try on 3 dresses and go back and forth unable to decide, some brides will feel discouraged when they try on what feels like a million dresses but still isn’t finding the one, and other brides will try their first dress on, sheds some tears, and say YES to the dress.

Just keep in mind that this IS a process, and while it can take some time, this is a beautiful journey that you will remember for the rest of your life.

One of the most important things to consider before shopping for your wedding dress is deciding who is joining you during your search.

If you’ve ever watched the popular tv show “Say Yes to the Dress” (a personal favorite, by the way), then you have seen just how important it is to have an audience with you that is supportive of you and your style.

It can also be a good idea to do a little research before heading out on the hunt for your perfect dress.

Below are some examples of the most popular styles of wedding dress silhouettes.

The Ball Gown

When people picture a ball gown, most envision a dress that would first be seen in a fairytale. A ball gown features a fitted bodice and a full skirt (the fuller the skirt – the more dramatic)!

Dress: Mori Lee Kristalina
The Wedding Shoppe

The A-Line Dress

Similar to the ball gown, an A-line dress begins with a fitted bodice. The main difference between the two is the skirt. A-line dresses have a gradual flared skirt. This silhouette is known for flattering all body types.

Dress: Madeline Gardner Amabelle
The Wedding Shoppe

The Mermaid Dress

Can you say glam?? This style of dress is for the brides that are going for a sultry, sexy look to show off their beautiful curves. The curve-hugging bodice extends down the waist and the skirt begins to flare at the knees. Mermaid dresses give ultimate hourglass effect.

Dress: Rebecca Ingram Hattie
The Wedding Shoppe

The Sheath Dress

The sheath silhouette provides a modern and easy-going look. These dresses offer a straight shape that simply skims over your body, letting your natural shape shine.

Dress: Allure Romance 3101
The Wedding Shoppe

The Jumpsuit

Not all brides imagine themselves in a dress. A jumpsuit is fun and polished and provides extra comfort, making it easier to bust-a-move on the dance floor! Jumpsuit styles typically come in wide-leg or slim-cut options.

Dress: The Other White Dress by Mori Lee Bridget
The Wedding Shoppe

While there are endless styles and features to make up your perfect wedding dress, I’m sure you’ll find the one for you!

Aside from just the silhouettes, think about the color (not all brides want white!), the neckline, the train (short, long, super long??), and sleeves.

Just remember to bring a support system with you, do a little bit of research beforehand, and ENJOY your experience; you can do it!

Need a little more inspiration? Click the Pinterest link below and check out the huge selection of bridal dresses I have personally drooled over.